April 23, 2010

Why The Secret Isn't Working For You

I've studied the mind for more than half my life, and I consider myself an expert in the field of anxiety disorders. I've conquered agoraphobia twice in twenty-four years with just the use of my mind, and I know why our minds do what they do and how to repair the problem. So when I tried to put The Secret into use and was coming up with zero results, I had to know the reason. I prayed and meditated, and asked God to give me the reasons why it wasn't working for me. And He did. He led me to read many books on the subject, and I now have the answers. I am going to tell you, straight-up, why The Secret, The Laws of Attraction, and any other books you've read haven't worked for you. Here we go.

The reason why these books and courses haven't worked is because they are witholding the fundamental truth. They've selectively omitted certain words that are crucial for the understanding of it. They haven't used the words, SUBCONSCIOUS BELIEFS, anywhere. They haven't stated that your core beliefs are responsible for all your manifestations. They haven't stated that you must find out what these core beliefs are, and then change them, if you want to manifest your desires. The law of attraction is dictated by the SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND ONLY THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. What this means is simple: you can consciously think positive thoughts all day long, but unless your core beliefs (your subconscious) line up with your thoughts and desires, you're wasting your time and energy. It's a simple fact that The Secret doesn't exactly tell you. Yes, The Secret tells you that you have to believe in order for it to work, but it doesn't tell you that your core beliefs are responsible for what you are manifesting. It doesn't say that what you believe underneath is how the universal laws are governed.

Take a look at your life. If you've been practicing The Secret, and it's been a few months, and you're still broke, still over weight, still alone, then something is definitely wrong. If you've been thinking wonderful and positive thoughts and nothing's happened, then you have to ask yourself why. The reason is simple. The law of attraction is a universal law that's always perfect, either way. It doesn't discriminate and it won't give you an argument. If your core beliefs are negative, then you will attract just that. If they're positive, then you'll attract just that. This law is constant and never changing. This is how the physical world operates. Your life as you live it, right this very second, is the manifestation of your subconscious beliefs. It's what you believe about yourself and about your life that governs what you're attracting. So if you were a heavy kid who was constantly ridiculed and made fun of, who didn't have friends because of your weight, then I can bet that your subconscious belief about yourself is that you're a fat, no-good loser, who will never be thin and successful. Don't believe me? The proof is in how you're living your life. If you've been practicing The Secret and still haven't lost weight, then something is holding back the progress. Your outter life is the result of what your subconscious is dictating--EVERY TIME, EVERY DAY, ALL DAY, NO EXCEPTIONS---EVER.

Now, I know there are hundreds of books, lectures, seminars, and courses that teach the tricks of the trade to get you to manifest your desires more quickly and easily. They want you to pay big money to learn what is inherent in each of you. You each hold the knowledge and key to healing yourselves and to reaching your goals and dreams. So why are these gurus making billions of dollars? Because they know the deal and are dangling the carrot in front of your noses, desperately trying to get you to buy their products. I'm all for making money; we have to have money. But here's what gets me: people across the world need help. We need each other. If I can help you change your life, I'm going to, without charging you. I'm a writer and I write books. Yes, I want to make money off my books. That's my career. And if I'm writing fiction or non fiction, I'm giving you my all--no holds bar. But claiming that you're trying to help people, and are only giving them PART OF THE CURE, well, to me, that's equivelent to foreplay without the main event. We need help from people who truly want to help us. I know that these gurus want to make their money, but they should be telling you everything . . . all the words, all the key points, not just a piece of the puzzle, leaving you wondering what you're doing wrong.

Listen, you're not doing anything wrong. All you need to do is start digging into your life. Begin by being honest with yourself about how you really feel about life and about yourself. Write it down and really examine it. When you unmask the truths about how you feel about money, success, love, and your body, then you can begin to change these negative core beliefs with positive affirmations and meditations that will reprogram those damaging negative beliefs into constructive positive beliefs. And when you begin to change your core beliefs, which nine out of ten times aren't true, which were planted by circumstances and good meaning parents, you can then start the process of deliberate intention of manifesting good things.

You've been searching for answers everywhere. You've spent countless hours online, looking at web sites that are trying to sell you their products. You click on the site, and then scroll through five pages of promises, only to have you hanging at the end. They don't divulge the answers. So you buy the product and are still left with questions. Don't you find it amazing how all these gurus are coming out of the woodwork promising you that they know what The Secret didn't tell you? And most of these gurus were mentioned in The Secret! Why didn't they tell us everything in the book?

Listen, please. This is coming from my heart. Deliberate manifestation will not work if what you're wishing for is going against what you believe deep inside. I repeat: THE LAW OF ATTRACTION WILL NOT WORK, IT WILL NOT WORK, NO MATTER WHAT, NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, IF YOUR DESIRES ARE GOING AGAINST WHAT YOU BELIEVE ABOUT YOURSELF.

2 comments:

The Writers Canvas said...

Excellent post. Thanks for taking the time to put words to blog.

I had a horrible sales job right out of college b/c it was all I could find. As terrible as the hours, location, job requirements, etc. were--I learned one priceless thing there. My manager once told me, "Your subconscious can't take a joke. If you tell yourself over and over that you don't feel good, you'll start to not feel well. Your conscious mind knows what is a joke. Your subconscious doesn't."

I went through a lot of lousy work days to glean that one tidbit.

Good stuff!
Elaine

Valentine said...

Hi Elaine and thank you for reading this. I agree with your boss. I studied this for several years until I finally unmasked the truth, and these gurus knew this truth, so why didn't they just tell us? Geesh!